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So I met a Gorgeous Black belt (with an awesome personality) and all went great, kino both ways etc but when I moved in for the kiss she turned her head (after a day 2). Eventually we discussed more about what's going on and we agreed that we wanted to have a casual relationship and still didn't close... Wierd but eventually I tied her up and things worked out.

The issue that I want your advice on is as follows. The reason she gave afterwards for why it took so long and is still awkward is that she has no issues with one night stands, no issues with boyfriends (Which I don't really want to be and she clearly doesn't want) but FWB is completly freaking her out... This is the second time this happened. The first with a girl from New Brunswick... got some wierd value system that you can fuck randoms, or be serious (but they don't want that) but not people who they get along with.

What's up with that?

Wat

I am not sure if i totally understand your question, but if this is it:

Q - why no sex when we are good friends?

A - because the currency between male-female is time and affection for sex, respectively! She is getting what she desires at a subconscious emotional level for free from you.

Now for the random sex thing. They do that when they are very attracted to you only. For that there must be some key elements present, like time of the month they are ovulating, if you are a complete stranger no one will find about, if they or you are different like out of town different race whatever, biology dictates variety is better and that is why women like strange man new to thier social circles... but by far is the discretion issue. Something they just cannot do with a friend guy.

It's an interesting response.
It even makes some contexual sense.
At the same time the sex could have been great and would have not decreased the "trade" but made it all the sweeter?
She was leaving later that week anyways...

Better question, how to work that situation?

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