11-23-2009, 07:48 PM
So every Monday I have a meeting with my prof at the Surrey campus of SFU. Usually I'll only decide to game if I have no hw that day. I just want to get stuff over with as quickly as possible so that I have max time left for hw. What I now start to realize is that that decision prior to leaving my apartment sets my whole day in motion.
Today I still had hw that is due, but I decided I will still game if the chance arises. I eat, shower, put on something good and go off to my marry way.
Fast forward to the bus stop and I see a cute Chinese girl wearing a red coat, jeans and boots stepping over to the bus sign to read when the next bus is coming, call her HBRed. I want to open but then a terrible fear strikes me "But what if someone sees me hitting on her?" (mind you this is a bus stop with a whole bunch of people so of course someone will see me). I wallow in that thought for about 5 seconds and decide to hell with it, if someone has a problem with that they better have the minerals to do better. I turn to her and ask "So when is the next bus gonna be here?"
HBRed: "I don't know *smile*"
Me: "So you just looked at the schedule, and decided it makes no sense?"
HBRed: *Laughs*
Me: "So you're a student here, in...Business?"
HBRed: "YEAH, how did you know?"
Me: *smile*"Lucky guess" (so if a girl in SFU is Chinese and has an accent still, 4/5 times she will be in business)
We talk a bit more and then she asks me about my undergrad which was in health sci. After answering that I channel the conversation to the class they have here, health sci 120 - Human Sexuality.
Me: "... So yeah, I was talking to the lady who teaches it and she has a master's degree from Montreal, in human sexuality! She will be at a conference or something and say "Nice to meet you, SexTeacher'sName, Master of human sexuality." Isn't that an awesome degree?"
HBRed: "SexTeacher'sName?"
Me: "Yeah, that's her name"
HBRed: "My name is SexTeacher'sName"
Me: "oh wow, maybe I should hook you two up"
The bus comes and we talk a bit more on the bus and as we get off she offers me refuge under her umbrella (I live in BC and don't own an umbrella). She has to go catch another bus, I have to go catch the train so I take out my phone and say "Hey, I know it's not the most fashionable thing but punch your number in and we'll hangout sometime"
HBRed: "Okay, what's your name btw?"
Me: "Oh yeah, I'm WhiteTiger, nice to meet you"
HBRed: "Nice to meet you"
and we break off, in retrospect I should have probably called her there and then to exchange numbers. Regardless after my meeting I send a txt saying
"Hey HBRed it's WhiteTiger
Here is my number
Do you speak txt?
"
Usually I have more abbreviations in my text but I figured since she's only in the Canada for 3 years so far, too many idioms won't be a good move.
She sends me a txt back after 15 mins or so saying:
"hi
sorry im not used to txt"
Nice
On the way back from SFU Surrey I notice another cute Chinese girl with pink boots. Call her HBPink. I try and think of something situational to say about the boots but nothing comes to mind, so I think of going direct, then decide I'm not skilled enough in direct yet, then decide again to screw it and just go. Turn to her and say "Hey"
HBPink: *looks at me*
Me: "I know this is unusual, but this is already the second time I see you and I had to at least come over and say hi"
HBPink: "Second time? where was before?"
Me: "About 5 minutes ago I saw you walk by, now this is already a second time, I recognized your boots"
HBPink *smiles*
We talk about different things, don't remember what exactly. What I do remember is that we both were going back to Burnaby campus, so I thought maybe I can squeeze an insta-date out of this. Also, when we had to catch the train twice (switch trains) I insisted on going to the front car, and by insisted I meant I went and she followed, nice
We talk a bit more, I tell some funny stories regarding school and clubs, tell her about the "Master of human sexuality" and so on. Then we reach one stop BEFORE campus and I remember I had to get off there and do groceries, crap!
So I bring out my phone and go "This has been quite fun, punch your number in and maybe we'll..." can't even finish my sentence she takes the phone and puts her number in. She is quite skilled at using my iphone b/c she also owns one, less fingernail scratches on my phone
Sent her the same txt, no reply yet
But I've realized a decision at the beginning of the day can affect SOOOOO many things later. From now on I'll take more care in the tone I set for each and every day of mine. If you set your inner game to nil, you can't force ANYTHING outside.
Today I still had hw that is due, but I decided I will still game if the chance arises. I eat, shower, put on something good and go off to my marry way.
Fast forward to the bus stop and I see a cute Chinese girl wearing a red coat, jeans and boots stepping over to the bus sign to read when the next bus is coming, call her HBRed. I want to open but then a terrible fear strikes me "But what if someone sees me hitting on her?" (mind you this is a bus stop with a whole bunch of people so of course someone will see me). I wallow in that thought for about 5 seconds and decide to hell with it, if someone has a problem with that they better have the minerals to do better. I turn to her and ask "So when is the next bus gonna be here?"
HBRed: "I don't know *smile*"
Me: "So you just looked at the schedule, and decided it makes no sense?"
HBRed: *Laughs*
Me: "So you're a student here, in...Business?"
HBRed: "YEAH, how did you know?"
Me: *smile*"Lucky guess" (so if a girl in SFU is Chinese and has an accent still, 4/5 times she will be in business)
We talk a bit more and then she asks me about my undergrad which was in health sci. After answering that I channel the conversation to the class they have here, health sci 120 - Human Sexuality.
Me: "... So yeah, I was talking to the lady who teaches it and she has a master's degree from Montreal, in human sexuality! She will be at a conference or something and say "Nice to meet you, SexTeacher'sName, Master of human sexuality." Isn't that an awesome degree?"
HBRed: "SexTeacher'sName?"
Me: "Yeah, that's her name"
HBRed: "My name is SexTeacher'sName"
Me: "oh wow, maybe I should hook you two up"
The bus comes and we talk a bit more on the bus and as we get off she offers me refuge under her umbrella (I live in BC and don't own an umbrella). She has to go catch another bus, I have to go catch the train so I take out my phone and say "Hey, I know it's not the most fashionable thing but punch your number in and we'll hangout sometime"
HBRed: "Okay, what's your name btw?"
Me: "Oh yeah, I'm WhiteTiger, nice to meet you"
HBRed: "Nice to meet you"
and we break off, in retrospect I should have probably called her there and then to exchange numbers. Regardless after my meeting I send a txt saying
"Hey HBRed it's WhiteTiger
Here is my number
Do you speak txt?
"Usually I have more abbreviations in my text but I figured since she's only in the Canada for 3 years so far, too many idioms won't be a good move.
She sends me a txt back after 15 mins or so saying:
"hi
sorry im not used to txt"Nice
On the way back from SFU Surrey I notice another cute Chinese girl with pink boots. Call her HBPink. I try and think of something situational to say about the boots but nothing comes to mind, so I think of going direct, then decide I'm not skilled enough in direct yet, then decide again to screw it and just go. Turn to her and say "Hey"
HBPink: *looks at me*
Me: "I know this is unusual, but this is already the second time I see you and I had to at least come over and say hi"
HBPink: "Second time? where was before?"
Me: "About 5 minutes ago I saw you walk by, now this is already a second time, I recognized your boots"
HBPink *smiles*
We talk about different things, don't remember what exactly. What I do remember is that we both were going back to Burnaby campus, so I thought maybe I can squeeze an insta-date out of this. Also, when we had to catch the train twice (switch trains) I insisted on going to the front car, and by insisted I meant I went and she followed, nice
We talk a bit more, I tell some funny stories regarding school and clubs, tell her about the "Master of human sexuality" and so on. Then we reach one stop BEFORE campus and I remember I had to get off there and do groceries, crap!
So I bring out my phone and go "This has been quite fun, punch your number in and maybe we'll..." can't even finish my sentence she takes the phone and puts her number in. She is quite skilled at using my iphone b/c she also owns one, less fingernail scratches on my phone
Sent her the same txt, no reply yet
But I've realized a decision at the beginning of the day can affect SOOOOO many things later. From now on I'll take more care in the tone I set for each and every day of mine. If you set your inner game to nil, you can't force ANYTHING outside.
, I studied something new,