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I would like to get some opinions on this...

I find that when I go out, it seems that I need a push from one of my friends or someone to go and open a set. Once I get that push, I will open and everything is on autopilot there.

What are some things you guys do to give yourself that extra push without having to get your friends to encourage you?

Thanks!

Neo

Funny I'm the exact same. Needing that little pushing, from my boys. Kinda feels like your ass is against the wall and there is nothing but to go forward.

But times they aren't my boys aren't around. I just picture in my mind a positive result. And it usually the image of her having a blast and smiling because of me.

The most important set of the night is the very first one.

As soon as you walk into a venue you NEED to open the first set you see. Guys, girls, doesn't matter. Don't open staff because that doesn't have the same effect mentally as a real cold approach.

Once you open 1 set, opening the 2nd is much much easier. If you open the first set you see whenever you walk into a venue, you will begin to have better nights, with less anxiety and less frustration.

I will definitely try both methods! Thanks for the feedback guys!

Just walk in and start plowing